Cheating and Infidelity
Can Cheating And Infidelity Be Forgiven?
You will first need to find the way to be authentic about your inauthenticity, and apologize in such a manner that offers your partner a genuine opportunity to forgive, to restore her trust in you, and stay in your relationship.
When you apologize, offer no:
- Excuses, explanations
- Denials, blame, rationalizations
- Attempts to minimize or shift responsibility
- Dish out any of these, and your relationship is toast. Buh-bye.
- Only truth, responsibility, and transparency.
Where to begin? First:
- Read aloud together The Five Love Languagesby Gary Chapman.
- Learn how to speak one another’s love languages.
- Take the online quiz.
- Speak to them in their Love Language.
How Else Can you make up for it
Secondly, get relationship and communication coaching.
Learn how to apologize, how to listen authentically.
Understand that neither of you learned more than Reading, ‘Riting, and ‘Rithmetic in school.
Neither of you had any classes on Relationships and Communication.
There was no Fourth R.
Then get a coach.
Learn the skills, insights, and best practices for a relationship that grows to last a lifetime.
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Is Cheating And Infidelity A Choice?
Yes, and at the same time, no.
Our society is better at teaching us how to know than it is about not how to be.
Our high schools have no classes on relationship and communication skills.
Few of us are aware of our own or anyone else’s love languages.
That leaves room for significant operational ignorance.
So, infidelity may indeed be a choice, but a choice heavily distorted by relationship and communication ignorance.
As a marriage and Communication coach, I see the difference it makes for couples once they’ve learned how to love one another and dance in love, honor, and mutual respect.
Learn The Skills, Insights And Best Practices To Enjoy A Marriage Built Upon Trust, Mutual Honor, And Respect
Enjoy a marriage that will grow to last a lifetime.
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